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You got the email. A Nigerian prince has a fortune he would like to share with you. Send him an email with some necessary information, such as your account information. You will be rich. It turns out the “Nigerian prince” was Billy Morrison, a fourteen-year-old boy. In 1949, Billy placed ads in newspapers. He claimed he was a prince with nothing but gemstones in an empty house. He wanted friends. In exchange, he would send diamonds and rubies. People wrote. Each letter bore more requests. No one received anything but the next request. Soon envelopes filled with money flowed through post offices. But no one saw a single diamond. That’s when the postal service got involved. By the way, Billy was an American who knew American weaknesses. We say that no one answers these, but dozens get duped out of life savings in this and other scams that have followed. The electronic age made it simpler. Paul counsels Christians to: “Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil.” (Ephesians 6:11) The devil is not slipshod but methodical. He knows weaknesses and vulnerabilities. He tailors every enticement for you. We have grown wary of the Nigerian email. Why, with the same kind of scam, do we not grow weary of the devil? Remember, the devil is not a teenager. Take him more seriously. -Robert G. Taylor-

Everyone knows that terrible feeling of tossing and turning when sleep flees. Some medicate while others meditate. It’s bad enough that so-called experts write hundreds of thousands of words about sleep each year. So, how do you find sleep when you are wide awake? In an article in the Journal of Psychology and Health, researchers suggest a practice that predates their own discipline. Forgive. They asked how forgiving people were about themselves and others. Those who forgave could leave the day’s defeats and mistakes at the bedside. Without forgiving, regret, and anger, snatches rest from the mind and soul. Jesus told people burdened with resentments: “For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.” (Matthew 6:14–15) The best rest you ever get is when you lay aside the anger, annoyance, and hurt. God’s prescription beats Ambien because it doesn’t numb the mind but eases the soul. Next time you feel like counting sheep, ask, “what do I need to forgive?” Then, let it go and go back to bed. -Robert G. Taylor-

Furrowed brows and twisted sheets tell the story for most people. Worry is the thief of life. Worry is about the future.  Lucas LaFreniere observed, “This is what breaks my heart about worry. It makes you miserable in the present moment to try and prevent misery in the future. For chronic worriers, this process leads them to be continually distressed all their lives in order to avoid later events that never happen. Worry sucks the joy out of the ‘here and now.’” “This might happen,” is the little voice whispering fears in your soul. When studied worry and the fears of people, he found something startling. More than 90% of what people worry about never happens. The concern was for nothing. Moderns did not invent worry but inherited it. Jesus knew the worried looks. And it looks quite up-to-date. ““Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?” (Matthew 6:25) His counsel remains the only real prescription for the anxiety of our age. Serve God today and let God work out tomorrows. “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.” (Matthew 6:33–34) The sad truth is we waste the life God gave us worrying about what will never be. Take hold of God’s hand and let him guide you today. He knows the future, so trust him. Let God do your worrying for you. -Robert G. Taylor-

In a world of sliding values, honesty doesn’t seem necessary. Or is it? The World Bank estimates that governments and businesses pay at least one trillion dollars in bribes annually. Most see this as “the cost of doing business.” Two researchers, Dan Ariely and Ximena Garcia-Rada looked at the effects. They wrote in Scientific American: Unless preventive measures are taken, dishonesty can spread stealthily and uninvited from person to person like a disease, eroding social norms and ethics—and once a culture of cheating and lying becomes entrenched, it can be difficult to dislodge. We talk about the flu and things like the coronavirus, but dishonesty proves disastrous. When you destroy trust through dishonesty, all relationships become subject. In a crossed-finger world, we must heed the instruction of Jesus: “All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one.” (Matthew 5:37) If your word is not good enough, your character is suspect as well. Clean up your life. Make honesty a hallmark of speech and business dealings. It might stop an epidemic. -Robert G. Taylor-

Philip Poniz discovered that “safe” doesn’t mean safe. He had a collection of rare watches. He did not like keeping them at his house, so he rented a safety deposit box at his bank. The bank held a key, and he had a key. It took both keys to open the box. Thirty-four years later, Poniz went to the bank to check his collection. He inserted his key, as did the bank manager. He lifted the lid. It was empty. “My impression about safe deposit boxes was that it was like you were putting things in Fort Knox,” he said. “Nothing could happen to it.” We want to find something that stays secure. Mankind longs for that sense of security. Jesus noted security is not what we it seems. “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6:19–21) Nothing held on earth secure. Homes get blown away. Economic downturns steal fortunes. Accidents rob you of health. Only obedience to God and the good done in his name have real value. Don’t think things make you secure. Turn a life toward God’s will and find the security you crave. -Robert G. Taylor-

If you haven’t noticed, houses are getting bigger. Less than 50 years ago, a regular house had 1500 square feet. Today it is 2500 square feet or more. That is with fewer people living in the house. While you may not know of anyone named “Jones,” keeping up with them drives the size. As one business school teacher noted: To be clear, having more space does generally lead to people saying they’re more pleased with their home. The problem is that the satisfaction often doesn’t last if even bigger homes pop up nearby. If I bought a house to feel like I’m “the king of my neighborhood,” but a new king arises, it makes me feel very bad about my house. It is an unfulfilling cycle of one-upmanship. It comes down to want, not need. Such problems are not new but as old as mankind. Agur the wise man observed, “The leech has two daughters. ‘Give! Give!’ they cry. “There are three things that are never satisfied, four that never say, ‘Enough!’:” (Proverbs 30:15) To the man who wants more and bigger, it is never enough. To the man who has God’s blessing, it is more than enough. Are you blessed or obsessed? It may be time to look at the size of your house. -Robert G. Taylor-  

Akitoshi Okamoto learned the hard way that complaining does not pay. Okamoto was irritated with his phone service. He complained about connectivity issues. He wanted an apology from the company in person. Then, when that did not work, he started calling the company and hanging up when it was answered. Each day he placed 33 of these called. In one week, the total was 400. In total, he made 24,000 complained calls. Finally, the police got involved and arrested Okamoto who was charged with fraudulent obstruction of a business. As far as anyone knows, his complaining did not work. As modern life gets more harried, we complain more. Service slows. Traffic worsens. Waiting rooms in medical facilities grow longer. We complain when life doesn’t cooperate with our plans. We make our irritation known…loudly. Yet, Christians are not called to be complaining people. They are to look at a bigger picture, one that has God the giver at its center. Paul told the Philippians, some of who needed the mind of Christ, “Do everything without grumbling or arguing,” (Philippians 2:14) The measure of a complaining life is what is not right. The mark of a blessed life is to see what God has done. It may never get you arrested but complaining will never help your life. Now, what’s your complaint? -Robert G. Taylor-